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brahmacharya and nofap

Brahmacharya and No Fap seems to be a confusing topic. But actually it is about the confusion lot of so called social media influencers are spreading.

I will call it ‘hypocritical confusion’. Like a hypocrite, these people spreading extreme confusion specially in the minds of youngsters.

First they are confusing people on the subject of masturbation, and healthy sex life.


Youngsters are totally misguided with the heavily marketed concept of ‘NO FAP’.

They have no idea about human sexuality, masturbation as a practice, and brahmacharya.

Most of them don’t even know the difference between sperm, semen and testosterone.

As such most of them are sexually illiterate, and on top of that, they are being bombarded by stupid videos on no masturbation, or no sex.

None of them really know the meaning of brahmacharya.

They have no idea about the meaning of the word ‘addiction’, and confusing a normal practice with addiction.

They still think ‘night fall’ is a disease and needs a cure, and many so called influencers are trying to reinforce these thoughts, and instead selling them herbs and supplements as a cure.

A country which gave the world the concept of human sexuality through our ancient scriptures of Kamashastra, of which Kamasutra is just a part.

Country where the aims or objectives of human life are considered to be ‘Dharma (righteousness, moral values), Artha (prosperity, economic values), Kama (pleasure, love, psychological values) and Moksha (liberation, spiritual values); is now trying to act as if Kama is an unnatural thing, and should be removed.

kamashastra and kamasutra

With couple of famous names they have mugged up, these misguided youngsters start assuming sex and masturbation to be unnatural and something to be shunned. If there are 5 names you know, there are 5 million out there who are more successful and did not follow brahmacharya or No Fap.

But the debate is not this, as I have already made a number of videos on this topic and more would be coming up:

The biggest issue is that the same people who are promoting No Fap, Brahmacharya and other such concepts, are making similar or even more number of videos on how to impress girls, ladki patane ke tarike, best flirting tricks, how to attract girls fast, what do girls find sexy in men, etc. Then there are similar videos made on men too. How to impress boys, tips to attract boys etc.

Now, the problem is not these videos. This is part of human sexuality. Attraction towards opposite sex is normal. But what’s quite questionable is that, on one hand people are asking you to practice brahmacharya and No Fap, and on the other hand they are telling you ways to impress girls.

Now, let me ask this question to you people: Let’s say you have a girlfriend or boyfriend, what would you do? Will you sit with each other and talk about NoFap or how you would practice brahmacharya?

Surely there are certain lines which should not be crossed before a certain age, but with proper sexual knowledge, the safety factor is a lot high. That’s why instead of ignoring sexual issues, one should be taught about them and spoken to openly so that doubts can get clarified.

Most youngsters remain confused about such issues, and have no one to discuss them with someone. There are thousands of individuals suffering from sexual diseases, but can’t share it with anyone because they have no one to go too, and they think it’s a taboo subject to be discussed.

And then these immature social media influencers, add salt to the wounds by spreading all misguided information, without understanding the subject.

This actually confuses the viewers, as they are forced to think whether we should be abstaining from sex and masturbation, or should we attract girls.

Therefore, it’s you who has to ask yourself, what you want. Remaining confused and joining stupid communities on social media, or understanding the subject and your own body. Also, it’s your duty to raise this question on such platforms who are spreading such misguided information.

2 Responses

  1. Sir I am not as well educated on the topic as u are, but I have a few questions in my mind, which I think must be answered :
    1. Kal agar aapke paas koi obese client aye aur apse fat loss k tips maange, to ap usko diet follow Karne to zaroor bologe. Par problem hai ki usko bahaar nikal te hi junk khaane k strong urges aate hai.. Actually ye problems saare beginners ko hoti hai…Usually people suppress their urges in the beginning to control it in the long run. Same works with celibacy too.. Noone ever says that if u follow celibacy u cannot reproduce (religious books mein to Intercourse ko ek holy process bola jata hai). Attraction is normal, but loosing control over ur mind is not.Celebacy never demands ur sex life it only gives u strong will power and focus.
    2. Ajke time mein( 2021)jaha porn itna easily available hai, aur India ranks in watching porn all over the world,, kya masturbation without porn ek practical solution hai? (Upar se premature ejaculation aur rape India mein common problems hai) I don’t think so, kyu ki mai khud teen hu aur apne generation ko bohot paas se dekhta hu. Ap ek poll use kar sakte hai check Karne k liye
    I apologise if my words offend you sir, but aapke videos in questions k answers k bina incomplete rahete hai. Please remove our confusion . And yes I am 18yr old.

    1. Jordan, I know one thing that celibacy is not an Indian concept. It’s a western Christian thought where sex and masturbation is considered a sin but it is not as such perceived in our culture. They say that Vivekananda said it that save semen for 12 years and you will develop something, some supernatural power. But check it once, whichever website says it, it is only a reproduced content. Vivekananda said it about Brahmacharya not semen retention. I studied many texts of Vivekananda, he has mentioned it about following Brahmacharya and that too in the context of whole different thing which was to create Brahmcharis so that spiritual knowledge can be propagated to different generations. Brahmacharya never means celibacy first of all. Brahmacharya means path of the ultimate. The supreme identification, if you are on that path then you are a Brahmachari. Brahmacharya involves non stealing, no greed, no impure thoughts, no lies, no intoxication, constant devotion in the Brahman (Brahman means the supreme consciousness). Semen retention can be done but only by Sadhana and that too by ascetics not by commoners. Trust me its these youtubers who have added brahmacharya as semen retention with NoFap. I mean seriously dude! My spiritual guru said its okay to masturbate who is a Buddhist monk himself. But regarding porn its a different issue. But masturbation (without porn) is not a problem and these people are making it a problem to gain views or may be they are themselves confused because they are not spiritual gurus. Check any of the legitimate first source talk of a spiritual guru not religious ones, they will say this don’t force abstinence. Go and talk to them in real life you will know this. And the benefits they are counting as of semen retention, they are because of Meditation of Brahmacharis, the real ones. You masturbate one or twice in a month or once in a week, its absolutely okay. Regarding porn addiction, that’s a complete different topic of behavioural compulsive disorder. Misinformation is more dangerous than no knowledge. 1 Losing control over mind is human. What focus you are talking about is developed of meditation, not celibacy. Meditate heavily and masturbate, no harm. Still your Ojas will increase! Check out Tantra, a branch of Hinduism which celebrates sex and masturbation.
      2. Porn is a serious issue but to curb that you can’t say masturbation without porn is no solution. Absolutely it is a solution. Its all in your mind. You get this line seriously, premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction can be caused by the guilt associated with it and that’s research proven. About porn causing them, more research and data are needed.

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